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		<title>Beach Walk 719 &#8211; Internet Improves Communication</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Nov 2008 13:18:08 +0000</pubDate>
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	<p>"Internet Improves Communication" - or at least it does for some of the people some of the time. It can also intrude on other people's conversations, it can be full of falsehoods. Nonetheless in this episode I am talking about the upside of the internet's tools to connect us and add to our sense of community and ability to know more about each other. The <a href="http://www.pewinternet.org/PPF/c/6/topics.asp">Pew Internet Family and Life Project</a> keeps finding that overall, in the aggregate, more people feel they have better communication with family members than before the internet. I know this to be very true in my family. </p>

	<p>Hawaiian Word:<br />
Launa &#699;&#333;lelo; <em>dialog, communication</em></p>

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		<title>Beach Walk 633 &#8211; Reception or Deflection</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 May 2008 10:01:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rox</dc:creator>
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	<p>Monday seems like a good time to discuss one of the ways energy gets moved around between/among people, since Monday's tend to have a lot of "incomings" - messages, requests, complaints, etc. I use a little phrase (when I remember!), to slow things down and help me regain my footings. </p>

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	<p>Hawaiian word:<br />
LoaÊ»a mai: <em>receive</em></p>

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		<title>Beach Walk 616 &#8211; Be Here Now for Business</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Apr 2008 10:01:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rox</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<img src="http://e.static.blip.tv/Beachwalks-BeachWalk616BeHereNowForBusiness595.jpg" width="100" height="75">It's not that easy to drop old grudges but it's worth doing.]]></description>
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	<p>I find it just as easy and tempting to stay stuck in the past with business relationships as I do in personal ones. But I was feeling satisfied with an email I wrote to a client this morning, and thought I would bring that even more into awareness, by talking about it here.  On a side note, you can see from Shane's beautiful pan at the end - the silvery volcanic ash-vog to the south and the clear beauty towards the north. What a switch from yesterday!</p>

	<p>As I was working on these show notes, <a href="http://bloombergmarketing.blogs.com/bloomberg_marketing/2008/04/lori-magno-digi.html">this post on social media etiquette</a> came to my Inbox. Thanks Toby  perfect timing!</p>

	<p>Hawaiian word:<br />
Mahalo: <em>respect; thank you; gratitude</em></p>

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		<title>Beach Walk 586 &#8211; Friendliness &amp; Praise</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2008 10:01:23 +0000</pubDate>
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	<p>W00t!  The sun is out!  Praise be to the weather. Let's face it: kind words and genuine praise just feel good. It is all too common when talented people take on a type of snobbery, as if they have earned some form of superiority. I much prefer to give my business to people who are competent and friendly, like the people I have recently discovered at <a href="http://www.jsalon.com">J Salon</a>. It is a good reminder to me as I myself can sometimes fall into the snob mode too. I talked about in <a href="http://www.beachwalks.tv/2007/12/19/beach-walk-552-bitterness-or-bliss/">Bitterness or Bliss</a>.</p>

	<p>Hawaiian Word:<br />
Ho&#699;omaika&#699;i: <em>praise</em></p>

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